Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Time to Get in Shape!
After putting off a much needed Dr's. app't., I finally went last week. I am blessed to say that everything was OK. Although I lost a few pounds, she did say that I need to get in better shape. Can you believe it? A former letter carrier and now I am out of shape. I don't know how I got to this point...I have always been on the thin side, but now....uh oh....I movin' on up in the weight category. I didn't have this problem last spring/summer, I walked around Gleason every day that the weather was good. This year though, it is a very different story...the weather hasn't been that great~that's my story and I'm sticking to it. LBS I have decided to play sports this spring summer. I wanted to play softball, but it seems like it is too late to sign up anywhere. My Sis stated that she would like to play golf. I can go for that! I think that I would look really cute in a "Serena" inspired outfit. *wink* I remember playing golf in gym at Roosevelt. Some days, Coach Henderson would take us to Gleason so we could play. He always encouraged us to join the team...I never did. I probably should have. But anyway, I am looking forward to getting back in shape. I am actually participating at a Zumba event on Friday for Heart Disease in memory of my Bestie, Tee. I'm pretty sure that I will have a lot to blog about behind that one.....See you on the links....FORE!!!
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
Late Night Politics
It's about 3:00 AM and I can not sleep. Nothing's wrong...just one of those nights/mornings. I am actually doing some laundry, so all is not lost on the lack of sleep.....I can hear the wind rustling outside my window as it is storming.....
Next week, in my hometown of Gary, which I mostly refer to as the "G", is election day. History is bound to be made within the mayoral race. The 2 front-runners are both African-American Women! By Lake County being a democratic machine, the winner will most likely become mayor. Over the past few weeks, I have been in debate with people over who I would vote for and the reasons why. Although I am unable to vote because of my residency, I would encourage all that are registered to vote in the G, to vote!! The usual dismal voter turnout percentage of 35-40% is not what is needed. In order to get your voice heard, you must exercise your right to vote. If you don't vote, you definitely have no grounds to complain any decisions that will be made that will affect the city. The G has been in turmoil for years. So realistically, how can the new Mayor turn the city around in 30 days, 90 days, a full term? Please don't expect that.....some will though-real talk! Progression to a better city is what I would expect. If you are still undecided, there is a mayoral forum scheduled on April 30th. I would encourage you to attend and try to get your questions answered. Read the local newspapers, Email or "Facebook" the candidates, go to the forum, click on the Ustream links, etc.! What I am getting at is this: AN INFORMED VOTER IS A WISE VOTER!
So much for that....my loads are done. Maybe I can get these last 3 hours in.....Night....Night......
Next week, in my hometown of Gary, which I mostly refer to as the "G", is election day. History is bound to be made within the mayoral race. The 2 front-runners are both African-American Women! By Lake County being a democratic machine, the winner will most likely become mayor. Over the past few weeks, I have been in debate with people over who I would vote for and the reasons why. Although I am unable to vote because of my residency, I would encourage all that are registered to vote in the G, to vote!! The usual dismal voter turnout percentage of 35-40% is not what is needed. In order to get your voice heard, you must exercise your right to vote. If you don't vote, you definitely have no grounds to complain any decisions that will be made that will affect the city. The G has been in turmoil for years. So realistically, how can the new Mayor turn the city around in 30 days, 90 days, a full term? Please don't expect that.....some will though-real talk! Progression to a better city is what I would expect. If you are still undecided, there is a mayoral forum scheduled on April 30th. I would encourage you to attend and try to get your questions answered. Read the local newspapers, Email or "Facebook" the candidates, go to the forum, click on the Ustream links, etc.! What I am getting at is this: AN INFORMED VOTER IS A WISE VOTER!
So much for that....my loads are done. Maybe I can get these last 3 hours in.....Night....Night......
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
April Showers
The month of April is normally known for the rain it brings.....hence April Showers. In my life, the month of April is synonymous with showers of tears. Three phenomenal women that I love dearly have birthdays this month. My Mom, my paternal Grandma, and my Bestie. They also are no longer here with me. My Mama and my Grandma both passed in April as well-Mama in 1997 and Grandma in 2004. I always try to remain busy on those days so I can't "think" about what the date is. On the 10th, My Ma would have been 62, Grandma would have been 82 on the 8th and Tee would have been 42 on the 23rd. I can still recall the last conversation I had with each of them like it was yesterday.
I went to my Ma's house and I got some pictures, she asked why did I try to steal her pictures. I told her that I just wanted to make some copies. She said well make copies of all of my pictures that you have stolen and give them back. She then picked up Cherrelle and told her you are a just a doll! That's why I call you Granny's doll. I then told her we would be back on her birthday, which was in four days....she passed 2 days later......
I called my Grandma and asked how she was feeling, because she had become bed ridden by then. She said like she always did...I feel ok. I then asked her was it OK to come and see her on that Thursday because it was going to be warm. Let me explain....I had just gave birth to Jannee' about 2 weeks before and Grandma was like the GESTAPO when it came to going out before those 6 weeks were up. She didn't want me to catch pneumonia or have a "set back".....to this day, I am really not sure what a "set back" is....I told her that it was going to be 70 degrees, so I should be fine and I really wanted her to see Jannee'. She told me just to wait and she knew she was beautiful because she was one of hers. That Thursday, I did get to see Grandma, just not like I wanted....she passed that day.....
My last conversation with my Bestie was a short one. She told me that she was feeling a little down. I immediately told her no worries, everything would be fine! She said to me...you are right! I told her that I loved her to pieces and she said I love your ass to pieces right back...she passed later that night......
Happy Birthday Ladies! I have decided to celebrate all month!! <3
Spread love to everyone.....and if you see me....give me a hug.....I could use one!
Much Love....Just Gen
I went to my Ma's house and I got some pictures, she asked why did I try to steal her pictures. I told her that I just wanted to make some copies. She said well make copies of all of my pictures that you have stolen and give them back. She then picked up Cherrelle and told her you are a just a doll! That's why I call you Granny's doll. I then told her we would be back on her birthday, which was in four days....she passed 2 days later......
I called my Grandma and asked how she was feeling, because she had become bed ridden by then. She said like she always did...I feel ok. I then asked her was it OK to come and see her on that Thursday because it was going to be warm. Let me explain....I had just gave birth to Jannee' about 2 weeks before and Grandma was like the GESTAPO when it came to going out before those 6 weeks were up. She didn't want me to catch pneumonia or have a "set back".....to this day, I am really not sure what a "set back" is....I told her that it was going to be 70 degrees, so I should be fine and I really wanted her to see Jannee'. She told me just to wait and she knew she was beautiful because she was one of hers. That Thursday, I did get to see Grandma, just not like I wanted....she passed that day.....
My last conversation with my Bestie was a short one. She told me that she was feeling a little down. I immediately told her no worries, everything would be fine! She said to me...you are right! I told her that I loved her to pieces and she said I love your ass to pieces right back...she passed later that night......
Happy Birthday Ladies! I have decided to celebrate all month!! <3
Spread love to everyone.....and if you see me....give me a hug.....I could use one!
Much Love....Just Gen
Thursday, March 10, 2011
My People-Part 1
I must admit, this blogging thing isn't that bad.....
Everybody has favorites. Favorite color, hair styles, foods, cars, etc. My favorite dessert is cheesecake, my favorite colors are pink and red, etc. My blog subjects for the next few posts are dedicated to some of my favorite people who just happen to be business owners.
My Favorite Dress Boutique-Gorgeous Emerald-owned by my sister/best friend Raven Cox
My Favorite Dessert Maker-Angel Cakes owned by Angela Lott
My Favorite Hatter-Top Notch Hats and Accessories owned by Jerome (Jerry) Lynch
My Favorite Bath and Body Products-Good Scents Oils owned by Regina Earvin
My Favorite Women Entrepreneur Support Group-WEA, Inc.-Nat'l President-Yolanda Lamar-Wilder
And of course: My Favorite Candles-Partylite-Gen Jones, Consultant
Please feel free to click on our links. Maybe we'll become one of your favorites, too.
Everybody has favorites. Favorite color, hair styles, foods, cars, etc. My favorite dessert is cheesecake, my favorite colors are pink and red, etc. My blog subjects for the next few posts are dedicated to some of my favorite people who just happen to be business owners.
My Favorite Dress Boutique-Gorgeous Emerald-owned by my sister/best friend Raven Cox
My Favorite Dessert Maker-Angel Cakes owned by Angela Lott
My Favorite Hatter-Top Notch Hats and Accessories owned by Jerome (Jerry) Lynch
My Favorite Bath and Body Products-Good Scents Oils owned by Regina Earvin
My Favorite Women Entrepreneur Support Group-WEA, Inc.-Nat'l President-Yolanda Lamar-Wilder
And of course: My Favorite Candles-Partylite-Gen Jones, Consultant
Please feel free to click on our links. Maybe we'll become one of your favorites, too.
Monday, March 7, 2011
Words Pt.2
Looks like the story will end here....Saying sorry does not always cut it. Sometimes sorry is not enough! You should choose your words carefully, once they are spoken, you can't take them back. I accept apologies, but I don'thave to accept you anymore. I refuse to accept "I'm sorry" anymore as a cure all from ANYBODY! That is all.......cue Cee-Lo! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZXvxxnmF10
Friday, March 4, 2011
Words
Pastor Holmes (RIP) always told us to find the good in people. I try....really I do. For some, you need a magnifying glass to find the good...LBS. I was told a couple of weeks to ago that I need to snap out of it (as I was grieving for my Bestie). If I had been my normal self, I would have gave the person a barrage of not so nice words. READ: Cursed out!! Instead I just responded that I didn't know that there was a time table and when I do snap out then maybe I'll call you back. I am progressing towards feeling better, I am laughing again and the anxious feeling is gone....somewhat. Have I called them back? NO. Got a couple of text messages...."Are you mad about something?" My response: I don't feel like talking. So today was a new day. I explained to them, via text, how I felt when they gave me their Dr. Phil of how I should feel....FOH!!! I felt liberated after that. I refuse to be held captive by someone else's BS. People are in our lives for reasons and seasons, I guess it is the end of that season. Na Na Na....Na Na Na...Hey Hey Hey....Good Byyyyyyyyyeeeee!! Now that just made me laugh out loud for real! Welp....that's all for now. Gotta get ready for the gig....get in and get out. It's party time for my sister Raven tonite-Happy Birthday again! Just remember that words can hurt....use them wisely.
Thursday, March 3, 2011
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